Your post has the word "goth" in it 3 times. Note: this website is called GothicBC. Its kindof like going to a hair salon looking to make friends who have hair.
Also, I, like my fellow thread replier, do not base my social interactions on age or sex. Try something a little more personal.
Example: "I like _____"
If you want to get really fancy you can even say why.
Thats my advice. Good luck.