Gothic BC

I've definitely noticed the bi trend among young adults.  I think that it's a sign of the times.  What I mean is that there seems to be an acceleration of consciousness going on..and it's speeding up.  I think that being bi, or bi curious, is really just people starting to realise that they are first and foremost living beings, rather than male or female.  When someone has an experience with someone of the same sex, there is a realisation that comes with it.  Someone will usually be naturally more dominant in that same sex experience, however it manifests.  So, if you're a man, and used to being dominant, and then have an experience where you take a submissive role, you realise that you can be in that position...and it's as okay as being in control.  It's interesting to look at that through bdsm; men and women topping and bottoming is really an opportunity for them to know the polarity in themselves; reaching outward, or taking inward.  My partner and I switch quite a bit.  She is changing a lot because of it, and becoming more confident as a person.  It seems very important to me.  I don't think a man or woman can really understand their human form until they have been both dominant and submissive.  It goes way beyond sexuality...but, of course, the sexual, or physical action is a stage in the process.  I foresee in my mind's eye that more and more people who are attracted to the scene will become switches, not neccessarily sexually, but that they will come to know the humility of surrender as a sub, and the responsibility of control and personal authority as a dom/me.

Well, I think it's great that people are exploring their sexuality. It can be annoying when people say that they are bisexual in a bragging kind of way. I don't use a label on my sexuality, people can make their own assumptions/judgements about me for all I care. I think that's the way it should be. People should be people, not gay or straight or bi. Let's just be people. If people think it makes them cool to say they are bisexual, then they have insecurities. I don't see how any sexual preference can be "cool". You know? You like who you like, and that's the way it is.