Believe me Val, I share very similar views. It goes a lot deeper than that I think. Parents are also just as fearful when it comes to discipline. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to say parents should beat their kids or berate them incessantly, but that fear does hang over their heads compared to when I was a child.
Schools as well as parents need to deal with bullying a lot harsher than they are now. But the kids that are being bullied also need to be dealt with, from a psychological sense. And this is what I was talking about in regards to peers as well as parents paying attention to changes in ones 'normal' demeanor if they are being bullied.
As for the governments gun control laws, or lack thereof, anyone with a firearms safety certificate can purchase as many rifles as they want. It's just typical beuracratic nonsense. As long as you can jump through the hoops they've setup you can have as many guns as you wish. They definately need to add a psychological component to aquiring weapons like this. We aren't the US yet, but the differences aren't really that great either.